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Understanding the Moment of Silence Tradition

Check out our guide to find out more about the history and etiquette surrounding the moment of silence tradition.
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In the hustle and bustle of daily life, the tradition of observing a moment of silence offers us a chance to pause, reflect, and honor those who have left us.

A Moment of Silence Explained

A moment of silence is a period of quiet reflection, introspection, or prayer. It is a time when individuals collectively halt their activities to honor and remember the deceased, reflecting on the impacts of their lives on our own. 

This tradition has found its place in commemorating significant events, be they natural disasters, tragic occurrences, acts of violence, or the loss of individual lives. 

You may have witnessed moments of silence for the victims of 9/11 on the anniversary of the tragedy, or perhaps you participated in a candlelight vigil for someone who passed away in your community. Alternatively, maybe your school observed a silent moment each morning.

Whether you’re new to this tradition or not, there’s a good chance you have some questions about the origin and etiquette associated with this silent practice. Our guide provides some information about this tradition—when it started, what to expect during a moment of silence, and why it’s important. 

Origins of the Moment of Silence 

The moment of silence tradition has roots in religious funeral services and practices, but there are two theories regarding when the moment of silence tradition became a common practice to publicly honor the dead. Both stories occurred around the same time so there is some overlap in the details. 

One theory attributes the moment of silence concept to Australian journalist Edward George Honey, and the other credits South African politician James Percy Fitzpatrick with the idea. 

According to the first version, Honey wrote to the London Evening News in 1918 after the war, suggesting a five-minute period of silence to recognize those who lost their lives in World War I. Under the pen name Warren Foster, he allegedly wrote, “I would ask for five minutes; five little minutes only. Five silent minutes of national remembrance. A very sacred intercession.”

There’s a memorial placard dedicated to Honey in Melbourne, Australia, that reads, “In memory of Edward George Honey who died in 1922, a Melbourne journalist who, while living in London, first suggested the solemn ceremony of silence.”

In the other version, it’s believed Fitzpatrick wrote a letter that was forwarded to King George V, recommending the observance of a two-minute moment of silence on Armistice Day, November 11, to commemorate those who died in World War I. Fitzpatrick’s letter said, “That at the hour when the Armistice came into force, the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, there may be for the brief space of two minutes a complete suspension of all our normal activities … so that in perfect stillness, the thoughts of everyone may be concentrated on reverent remembrance of the glorious dead.”

Regardless of who first introduced this idea, King George V issued a proclamation to observe a moment of silence in what’s now thought to be the first instance of a moment of silence tradition. 

When Were the First Two Minutes of Silence Held?

King George V proclaimed November 11, 1919, as Remembrance Day. Now known as Veterans Day in the U.S. and Armistice Day in Europe, this first observance of the day was dedicated to honoring those who died in the line of duty in World War I. His proclamation called for a two-minute silence to remember those who gave the ultimate sacrifice (perhaps inspired by Honey and/or Fitzpatrick). Today, the United Kingdom and other Commonwealth members still participate in two minutes of silence on November 11. 

Moment of Silence Etiquette 

Participating in a moment of silence is a gesture of respect and reflection. When announced, participants are encouraged to stand in silence, free from distractions, and engage in personal reflection or prayer. It’s a time to honor the memory of the deceased and contemplate the fragility and beauty of life.

How Long a Moment of Silence Should Last

Typically a moment of silence lasts anywhere from one to three minutes, but the time doesn’t have to be exact. It’s more about the intention behind the event rather than exactly how long you observe it. The presenter announcing the moment of silence will determine when the period of silence starts and ends. 

How to Announce a Moment of Silence

Announcing a moment of silence thoughtfully with dignity and respect ensures that the gesture is both meaningful and impactful. Here are a few thoughtful approaches to consider:

1. Public Address

A presenter may announce a minute of silence in honor of a person—or group of people—at any special event, such as a funeral, memorial service, candlelight vigil, or even a concert or sporting event. 

They’ll usually start by giving a short speech or introduction regarding the deceased and maybe even reciting a prayer. Then, they’ll invite everyone to join the moment of silence by saying something like: “Let us take a moment to silently honor them,” or “Please join me in for a moment of reflection.” This is everyone’s cue to observe a period of silence.

2. Written Communication

For events planned in advance, including a notice in church or event programs, newsletters, or emails can prepare participants for the moment of silence. 

3. Visual Cues

Implementing visual cues such as dimming lights or displaying a message on screens can signal the beginning and end of the moment of silence. 

4. Silent Signals

In environments where noise can be disruptive, using non-verbal signals such as raising a hand or ringing a soft bell can effectively initiate a moment of silence.

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What Happens During a Moment of Silence?

Participants typically stand or sit quietly, allowing their minds to focus inward or on the occasion being honored. The absence of noise serves as a powerful counterpoint to the constant chatter and distractions that usually fill our surroundings. This pause offers a unique opportunity for reflection, empathy, and a deep respect for the moment. 

During this time of reflection, participants usually remove their hats, bow their heads or nod to one another, and close their eyes. Depending on the occasion, those gathered may hold hands or light candles. There are no rules regarding what to do during this quiet time — some may meditate, while others will say a silent prayer or simply sit in silence. But above all, it’s important to refrain from talking or making any movements that may be distracting to others.

In this shared silence, a deeper connection can be felt among participants, fostering a sense of unity and mutual understanding. At the conclusion of the time, the presenter will usually say “thank you” or something similar to signify that the moment is over.  

Why the Moment of Silence Matters

The moment of silence is a powerful tool for bringing us back to the present, reminding us of the interconnectedness of all life and the importance of living with intention and compassion. Participating in a moment of silence is a beautiful observance to honor the life of someone who has passed. There’s something so peaceful about watching everyone around you slow down and pause for just a moment or two. And for those mourning, this can be a particularly profound and comforting experience.

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