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Losing a dog: how to express sympathy and words to share

How do you comfort someone whose dog has passed away? Unfortunately, that’s a tough question many of us have come across. After all, it can be painful watching a loved one struggle after losing their four-legged friend. That’s why it’s important to offer your support and let them know you care. To help, we’ve provided several ways to offer sympathy for dog loss. 

How to express sympathy for dog loss

In our guide, we’ve listed suggestions on what to do and say when it comes to sending your condolences for the loss of a dog.

What to do

There are many ways you can show your support. To start, consider one of these simple acts of love. 

Send a sympathy card

Sending a card with words for losing a dog is one thoughtful gesture. So, what do you write in a sympathy card for the loss of a pet? It doesn’t have to be a long-winded message — something short and sweet will do the trick. For inspiration, check out our advice on what to say below. 

Call to express your condolences

Some of us shy away from calling our loved ones on the phone during difficult times, but your voice may be just what they need to feel supported. Don’t be afraid to pick up the phone and give them a ring. If they’re not ready to chat, they’ll send you to voicemail, in which case, you can leave a short voicemail offering your condolences

Give them a thoughtful gift

Another option is to consider sending them a pet sympathy gift. This could be anything, including a framed photo of their dog, a necklace with their pet’s name on it, flowers, or a donation to a local pet shelter in their name. You might even consider a memorial gift associated with pet cremation

What to say

Sometimes, it’s difficult knowing what to say when someone close to you is mourning their dog. No matter what you end up saying, we recommend speaking from your heart. 

Remind them of their special bond 

When expressing your sympathy for the loss of a dog, consider reminding them of what a good pet owner they were and how much they meant to their pal. 

  • You were such a loving parent to your dog, Fred. Remember when you took him on a two-week camping trip in the mountains? He sure knew how much he was loved!
  • You gave Spot the most loving and comfortable life, from the homemade treats you spoiled him with to the belly rubs you gave him each evening. No one could have given him a better life than you did. 
  • Jane was the most spoiled pup on the planet! You did everything you could to make sure she was loved and cared for every moment. She was lucky to have a pet mama like you. 

Share a special memory

If you’re looking for the right words for losing a dog, reminiscing together is a great way to show you care. 

  • I’ll never forget when you got the flu and your dog Lewis never left your side. He cared so much for you and wouldn’t budge until he knew you were on the mend. His love for you was unwavering. 
  • I’ve fond memories of Sunshine splashing in the waves on our beach vacation. And remember how much she loved digging in the sand? She was such an adventurous and happy dog that spread so much love to everyone she met. She sure will be missed. 
  • Your dog Fluff gave the best cuddles. I’ll always remember her warm and loving snuggles during our movie nights. I’ll miss her dearly. 

Offer your continued comfort and support 

When you’re at a loss for what to say, sometimes simply offering your love and support can make all the difference. 

  • I know you’re going through a difficult time right now after losing Pup. I’m always here for you, whether you want to chat on the phone, go for a walk, or simply sit in silence together. Don’t hesitate to reach out. 
  • I, too, will miss George. He was the best dog. Please know that you have my continued support. I’m always just a phone call away. 
  • It’s heartbreaking losing a pet, especially one as special as Poppy. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. 

Use a meaningful quote

Still not sure what to say? Allow someone else to say it for you. There are countless losing a dog quotes that can help you express your condolences. Quote a famous phrase when talking to them on the phone or include a touching poem inside your sympathy card. 

  • “Dogs’ lives are too short. Their only fault, really.” – Agnes Sligh Turnbull
  • “Dogs leave pawprints on our hearts.” – Unknown
  • “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” – Winnie the Pooh 

Watching your loved one grieve over their dog isn’t easy, but now is the time to remind them how much you care for them. Whether you decide to send a sympathy card or give them a call, even the simplest acts of kindness can go a long way. 

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