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What to write in a sympathy note for funeral flowers

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Sending flowers to someone who’s coping with the loss of a loved one is a thoughtful gesture. Flowers have a way of brightening someone’s day and let them know you’re thinking about them. But you might be wondering what to say on your sympathy note for flowers besides “sorry for your loss.”

There are countless ways you can express your condolences. You can’t really go wrong when writing a sympathy note for funeral flowers, as long as you speak from your heart. 

To give you some ideas of what to write in your sympathy note for the flowers you’re sending, we’ve compiled 33 example sympathy flower messages. 

Read more: What to say instead of sorry for your loss? Try these 35 alternatives

Message ideas for sympathy notes for flowers

What is a good sympathy message? 

A good sympathy message is personal, empathetic, and heartfelt, but the specific contents will depend on the recipient and their situation. You might decide to express your condolences, offer your love and support, or even include a little anecdote about the deceased. Just remember, sometimes the simplest messages are the most powerful.

Use these sympathy flower message examples for inspiration, and add your own personal touch to them — and don’t forget to sign your name!

Short sympathy message for flowers

A short message can be just as powerful as a long note. Consider using one of these short messages.

Lisa, I hope these flowers remind you of Joan’s beautiful soul. You have my sincerest condolences during this difficult time. 

Josh brought happiness and joy into all our lives. We’ll all miss him dearly. 

I know it’s painful, and I hope you find comfort in reflecting on all the beautiful memories of your uncle. He’ll be truly missed. 

May your memories of your grandson bring you comfort during this difficult time. He was such a special child, and we’ll all miss the sound of his contagious laugh. 

Liz, I know how much your aunt meant to you. I’m sending you my condolences and all my love. 

These flowers made me think of Trish. May you and your children feel the love that surrounds you during this difficult time. 

I’m so deeply saddened about Ron’s passing, but I’m finding solace in all the memories I have of him. I hope you, too, can find peace and comfort during this dark time. 

I wish I could take your pain away. My thoughts go out to you and your family.

I still have trouble processing that sweet Debbie is gone so soon. She was such a bright light in our lives. Peace, prayers, and blessings to you and your family. 

Flower messages for family

If your family member is grieving, you may feel inspired by one of these sentiments. 

Mom, I’ll always remember how much Grandma loved sunflowers. I hope these flowers bring you some comfort as you grieve her loss. 

Uncle Dave, nothing I write seems to convey the sadness I feel for you and Angie right now. Please know I’m thinking of you and sending all my love your way. 

Aunt May, you have my deepest sympathy at this time, and please know that I’m always here for you. 

Your father was so friendly, loving, and caring. He was a great uncle. I see so many of those qualities in you. I’m sending you all of my love, dear Patrick. 

Our cousin Leon is gone but never gotten. Aunt Patsy and Uncle Tip, you have my love and support as we all grieve this tragic loss.

I feel so much pain, but I know Great Uncle Todd wouldn’t want us all crying over him. I hope we can all find love, comfort, and joy in celebrating his dear life.

What an honor it was for us all to have the pleasure of knowing Doug. He was a one-of-a-kind cousin, and we’ll cherish the memories we shared. 

Words can’t express how sad I am to hear the news. May our cousin rest in peace and power. 

Simple flower sympathy messages for friends

When your friend is mourning the loss of someone special, one of these short sympathy messages can show how much you care. 

Tim, these flowers reminded me of how bright and beautiful your wife was. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sending love and comfort to you. 

Alice, remember when we brought your niece to the flower fields last summer? These flowers reminded me of the flower crown she made. I miss her so much, and I’m wishing you comfort during this time. 

I’m so sorry for your loss, Marg. I have fond memories of your brother, and I’ll always remember his big smile and even bigger heart. 

No words can convey the grief I feel over your mother’s passing. She was like a mother to me, too. I love you, and I’m here for you, Ben. 

I didn’t personally know your sister, but I always admired your special friendship. May you find light during your darkest hours. 

Jen, I’m sorry to hear about your cousin Blake. He was one of the nicest, funniest people I’ve ever met, and it was an honor to know him. You’re in my thoughts. 

I’ll never forget the time your husband drove 75 miles in the pouring rain to give me a ride when my car broke down. He was the most selfless person I’ve ever met. I’m so sorry he left us too soon. 

My heart goes out to you and the kids. Please know that I love you all. I’ll reach out in a few days to check in. 

Brian is shining down on all of us. I look forward to celebrating his beautiful life with you and your siblings. May he rest in peace. 

Sympathy message for flowers from a company

If your company loses an employee, sending a short message to their family is a thoughtful gesture. 

Mr. and Mrs. Jones, your daughter was a ray of sunshine and a pleasure to work with. You and your husband are in our thoughts and prayers. 

Marsh Family, please accept these flowers as a sign of our deepest condolences. Your son was a brilliant man and a beloved employee. Our entire company will treasure the time we spent with him. 

To the family of Joyce, our hearts hurt after hearing of her passing. Our entire company is praying for your family as we all mourn this tragedy. 

Pete’s passing has deeply impacted us as he was not only an employee but a friend to all. We’ll miss him so much, and we pray we can all find peace and comfort. 

Ms. Lane, may Julia rest in peace. At our office, we shall continue her legacy always. 

Rob may be gone, but we’ll keep his spirit alive with our love. From our entire company, we send our thoughts to you and your family. 

We’ll miss Rach so much, but we’re all so grateful for the opportunity to know her and work with her. We’re lucky to have experienced her love and spirit. RIP, Rach. 

Inspiring quotes for funeral flowers

Prefer to let someone else say it for you? Include one of these famous quotes with your flowers.

“Life has to end. Love doesn’t.” -Mitch Albom

“Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear.” -Unknown

“Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul, there is no such thing as separation.” -Rumi

“What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” -Helen Keller

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal.” -Unknown

Read more: 25 alternative ways to say rest in peace

Your sympathy note for flowers doesn’t have to be long. In fact, oftentimes, you can say more by saying less. Remember, when writing your own sympathy flower message, it’s ok to keep it short and sweet.

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